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End Bedtime Battles & Night Waking.

Complete a 2-minute assessment to get a gentle, tear-free bedtime action plan.

Why bedtime feels unsafe to let go

Bedtime protest often signals body state, not disobedience. When lights go out, separation can feel unsafe and the body stays on alert. Without a calm way to self-soothe, children need you to fall asleep.

  • Separation can make the dark feel unsafe.

  • Shifting limits stretch the stall.

  • Screens and late play delay sleep pressure.

  • Night wakings need the same calm answer.

What is usually not helpful at bedtime

  • Do not start new negotiations

    Adding new negotiations after lights out usually stretches the bedtime routine.
  • Do not change the whole routine nightly

    Changing the whole routine every night can make sleep feel less predictable.
  • Do not turn wakeups into long conversations

    Turning nighttime wakeups into long conversations often makes it harder to settle again.
Evidence-based sequence

A gentle sequence for peaceful bedtimes

Prepare the routine

Keep the same calming order, reduce stimulation, and make the final step predictable.

Set one clear limit

Use a bedtime pass, short script, or visual cue so your child knows what happens next.

Fade your presence

Move support back gradually while keeping your tone calm and interactions brief.

Evidence-informed

Morgenthaler et al. (2006), in an American Academy of Sleep Medicine practice parameter, found behavioral interventions effective for bedtime problems and night wakings in young children.

  • Limits decrease bedtime stalling.
  • Fading reduces sleep onset latency.
  • Independent sleep builds confidence.
Morgenthaler et al. (2006) — Sleep

Select your child's age group for a custom plan

Every age experiences sleep challenges differently. Select a group below to see a customized sequence built for your child's developmental stage.

Complexity
5/ 10

Support intensity changes with age, language, safety, and recovery time.

Security and predictable exits

Bedtime pass card

Toddlers often need a short visual routine, predictable parent exits, and one simple way to ask for help without restarting bedtime.

Your pathway to independent sleep

A structured, step-by-step program designed to build sleep confidence and reduce nighttime struggles.

Module 1Map the sleep pattern15 minutes

Map the sleep pattern

Track bedtime, wakeups, caregiver presence, and the common moments when stalling begins.

Sleep Pattern Map

A simple log for bedtime resistance, waking, and morning energy.

15 minutes
When bedtime stretches on again

Help your child settle to sleep without a nightly battle

Tell us what bedtime looks like at home. Get a calmer way through fears, repeat requests, and night waking.

  • What to change between wind-down and lights out
  • What to say when your child is scared or asks you to stay
  • How to answer repeated requests without starting over
Program format

Self-Guided Bedtime Routine

A self-paced program providing bite-size, actionable bedtime guides and tailored assignments for your family.

  • Easy evening planners.
  • Tactile bedtime passes.
  • Actionable parent scripts.

Personalized Routine

Turn bedtime into a repeatable evening sequence

Guided Days helps you understand where bedtime gets stuck, choose a small change for tonight, and make separation, comfort, and follow-through more predictable.

  • Find whether the hard part is winding down, separation, fears, or repeated requests.
  • Set a bedtime sequence your child can recognize before the argument starts.
  • Adjust your response so comfort stays warm without restarting bedtime again and again.
A Guided Days screen showing a bedtime sequence and parent follow-through steps
Behavioral therapist for bedtime challenges

A behavioral therapist to guide you through bedtime

If bedtime battles feel overwhelming or your child has complex anxiety, our behavioral therapists provide personalized support that fits your family's routine.

Identify

Pinpoint the hidden environmental or anxiety triggers delaying sleep.

Plan

Craft a tailored fading and boundary schedule for your household.

Empower

Gain confidence with direct coaching to handle nocturnal wakings.

Credentials we check
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Credentials, practical experience, and parent-training track record verified

We work with behavioral therapists who have demonstrated experience in parent training and caregiver-mediated interventions—so support works in the routines your family repeats at home.

We replace bedtime battles with calm boundaries, helping children learn that sleeping alone is safe and within their reach.

Skills that grow with your family

The behavioral boundaries and self-soothing scripts you learn here will help you navigate future transitions and developmental changes.

Creating a repeatable sequence that lowers uncertainty and helps the body expect rest.

Use it nowBedtime routines, bath transitions, and lights-out steps

Supports smoother morning routines, homework starts, and leaving the house.

Future situationsBuilds independent planning and self-management for older children and teens.

Creating a repeatable sequence that lowers uncertainty and helps the body expect rest.

Support level

Choose the support level your family needs

Basic

Self-paced access to your personalized support program and practical parent materials.

$19/ month
  • Targeted action plans for your biggest daily struggles (like sleep, tantrums, or screen time).
  • Exact words to say to de-escalate a situation in seconds.
  • Ready-to-use visual tools to make daily routines predictable.
  • Bite-sized daily steps designed for exhausted parents, taking just 5 minutes a day.

Start with your personalized program and add expert support if needed.

Personal expert

Personalized guidance and live 1:1 sessions with an experienced, certified behavioral expert.

from $99/ month
  • A personalized support program, built and adjusted with your expert.
  • Live 1:1 meetings with a certified behavioral specialist.
  • Direct feedback and answers to your questions.

Choose expert support when your family needs deeper, more individualized help.

Start tonight

Bring peace back to your evenings without the tears

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