Andrea is a BCBA, LBA with 15+ years of experience supporting children ages 2–15 and their families. She specializes in early intervention, communication, emotional regulation, independence, and caregiver support using child-centered, evidence-based approaches.
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End Bedtime Battles & Night Waking.
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Why bedtime feels unsafe to let go
Bedtime protest often signals body state, not disobedience. When lights go out, separation can feel unsafe and the body stays on alert. Without a calm way to self-soothe, children need you to fall asleep.
Separation can make the dark feel unsafe.
Shifting limits stretch the stall.
Screens and late play delay sleep pressure.
Night wakings need the same calm answer.
What is usually not helpful at bedtime
Do not start new negotiations
Adding new negotiations after lights out usually stretches the bedtime routine.Do not change the whole routine nightly
Changing the whole routine every night can make sleep feel less predictable.Do not turn wakeups into long conversations
Turning nighttime wakeups into long conversations often makes it harder to settle again.
A gentle sequence for peaceful bedtimes
Prepare the routine
Keep the same calming order, reduce stimulation, and make the final step predictable.
Set one clear limit
Use a bedtime pass, short script, or visual cue so your child knows what happens next.
Fade your presence
Move support back gradually while keeping your tone calm and interactions brief.
Evidence-informedMorgenthaler et al. (2006), in an American Academy of Sleep Medicine practice parameter, found behavioural interventions effective for bedtime problems and night wakings in young children.
Morgenthaler et al. (2006) — Sleep
- Limits decrease bedtime stalling.
- Fading reduces sleep onset latency.
- Independent sleep builds confidence.
Select your child's age group for a custom plan
Every age experiences sleep challenges differently. Select a group below to see a customised sequence built for your child's developmental stage.
Support intensity changes with age, language, safety, and recovery time.
Bedtime pass card
Toddlers often need a short visual routine, predictable parent exits, and one simple way to ask for help without restarting bedtime.
Your pathway to independent sleep
A structured, step-by-step programme designed to build sleep confidence and reduce nighttime struggles.
Map the sleep pattern
Track bedtime, wakeups, caregiver presence, and the common moments when stalling begins.
A simple log for bedtime resistance, waking, and morning energy.
Help your child settle to sleep without a nightly battle
Tell us what bedtime looks like at home. Get a calmer way through fears, repeat requests, and night waking.
- What to change between wind-down and lights out
- What to say when your child is scared or asks you to stay
- How to answer repeated requests without starting over
Self-Guided Bedtime Routine
A self-paced programme providing bite-size, actionable bedtime guides and tailored assignments for your family.
- Easy evening planners.
- Tactile bedtime passes.
- Actionable parent scripts.
Personalised Routine
Turn bedtime into a repeatable evening sequence
Guided Days helps you understand where bedtime gets stuck, choose a small change for tonight, and make separation, comfort, and follow-through more predictable.
- Find whether the hard part is winding down, separation, fears, or repeated requests.
- Set a bedtime sequence your child can recognize before the argument starts.
- Adjust your response so comfort stays warm without restarting bedtime again and again.

A behavioural therapist to guide you through bedtime
If bedtime battles feel overwhelming or your child has complex anxiety, our behavioural therapists provide personalised support that fits your family's routine.
Identify
Pinpoint the hidden environmental or anxiety triggers delaying sleep.
Plan
Craft a tailored fading and boundary schedule for your household.
Empower
Gain confidence with direct coaching to handle nocturnal wakings.



We work with behavioural therapists who have demonstrated experience in parent training and caregiver-mediated interventions—so support works in the routines your family repeats at home.
We replace bedtime battles with calm boundaries, helping children learn that sleeping alone is safe and within their reach.
Skills that grow with your family
The behavioural boundaries and self-soothing scripts you learn here will help you navigate future transitions and developmental changes.
Creating a repeatable sequence that lowers uncertainty and helps the body expect rest.
Supports smoother morning routines, homework starts, and leaving the house.
Creating a repeatable sequence that lowers uncertainty and helps the body expect rest.
Choose the support level your family needs
Basic
Self-paced access to your personalised support programme and practical parent materials.
- Targeted action plans for your biggest daily struggles (like sleep, tantrums, or screen time).
- Exact words to say to de-escalate a situation in seconds.
- Ready-to-use visual tools to make daily routines predictable.
- Bite-sized daily steps designed for exhausted parents, taking just 5 minutes a day.
Start with your personalised programme and add expert support if needed.
Personal expert
Personalised guidance and live 1:1 sessions with an experienced, certified behavioural expert.
- A personalised support programme, built and adjusted with your expert.
- Live 1:1 meetings with a certified behavioural specialist.
- Direct feedback and answers to your questions.
Choose expert support when your family needs deeper, more individualised help.
Bring peace back to your evenings without the tears
Establish loving, consistent sleep boundaries immediately. Get access to your customised routine plan, with zero waitlists.





